Social self and Digital self




Nowadays, the real world we are living with is no longer the only home we are attached to. There is already a virtual world. A virtual world is connected to the technologies we are using today. This is the 21st century and so this is the reason why we created our digital self. There is already a generated self,  made accordingly for us to understand our sense of self when we are inside in the digital world. In today’s blog, I would love to share what I learned in our class discussion about digital self and social self.


 According to William James, “social self is the recognition that a person gets from his teammates”. With this we can say that we have many social selves as there are individuals who recognize us and our fame, good or bad, honor or dishonor are our names for one of our social selves. Furthermore, we can present ourselves with this:

PERSONA

·         This is how we present ourselves in a particular situations creating a partial identity


SELF-PRESENTATION

·         This is a process in which we do certain things in accordance with how others will going to perceive about us

TRUE SELF

·         This is the part of us that is true and fragile. It is our instinctive core.

FALSE SELF

·         This is the identity that we create in order to hide and protect our true self

ONLINE IDENTITY


·         This is the identity that we created in the virtual or digital world wherein shows the sum of all our characteristics and our interaction

In our class discussion, we tackled how we should appear and interact online. We are future teachers so we should know how to be ethical online and how can we use the internet in a very effective way of learning and sharing the learnings that we have.  In order for us to have an idea about smart sharing the reporters of our class share some guided questions that we can use before we push that post button on the different social media platforms.

Is this post necessary?
                In each post that we are about to share or post on the internet, we should be aware of our post is necessary to post. I mean, we should have a good purpose in posting anything. Since our audience is the whole world itself, we should be more intelligent and smart in posting or showing things off on the internet.
Is there a real benefit in the post?
                In short, we should not post a non-sense post. We are just becoming a contributory factor in making rotten knowledge.

Is it appropriate?
                Posting anything that is unethical and immoral is never been appropriate in social media platforms. Fake news, immoral videos and many more should not be posted. Let’s no longer add to those who are doing it. Let’s make the change start in us.

Will this seem funny in 5, 10, 15 years?
                Think before you click. Be responsible for the consequences that you are about to pay when you post anything that will cause a strain in your image online. Remember that we have a present digital self in a virtual world that can directly affect our self-image in both the real and digital worlds.

Have I or we (as a family or as a part of a bigger group) resolved this issue?
                Ranting online about a certain belief should be applicable in the said issue that we are butting in. Stop posting stupid and non-sense comments if we actually know the said issue.


Furthermore, there are rules that we need to follow when we are staying ourselves online.
  • ·         Stick to safer sites
  • ·         Guard your passwords
  • ·         Limit what you share
  • ·         Anything you post online means forever
  • ·         Do not be mean
  • ·         Always tell if you see a strange behavior
  • ·         Be choosy with online friends
  • ·         Think before we click


In conclusion, our digital selves also have our social self. It is good to use different social media platforms but please make sure that every post, comments, and actions that we will be going to do should not be stupid and nonsense. Let us value our time and freewill in each act that we are about to do online because the things that we will do online can never be deleted.  


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